Prime, Not Past It

There is nothing more elegant in my mind than a well put together woman of a certain age.

Not overdone. Not apologetic. Not fading.

Present. Intentional. Alive.

Power doesn't shout. It shows up.

Here are 10 style moves that say you are in your prime, not past it.

1. Choose Structure

Choose structure over softness. As we age our bodies change. I feel like no matter how hard I try to maintain my muscle tone, I see drooping and softening. So soft clothing on a softening frame can make everything look collapsed. Looking stiff here is not the goal. Looking intentional is. Think about how sharp uniforms look with their clean lines. Blazers, coats, structured knits and tailored trousers and crisp jeans. Structure signals strength.

2. Wear Color on Purpose

Color signals vitality. Vitality never ages. A bold lip. A red shoe. Crisp white. Earth tones that look intentional. Depth is more important than loud.

3. Fit Matters More Than Trends

Skip chasing trends. Curate.

Wear what fits your body. I mean now.

Tailoring is respect.

4. Edit Ruthlessly

If it is droopy, stretched, faded, or tired, release it. Clothes should support and enhance you, not diminish you.

5. Modernize the Silhouette

You do not need to look 25.

You need to look current.

Slightly structured. Slightly intentional. Slightly sharp.

All with your special twist.

6. Stand Tall

Posture is a big part of your outfit. Do not ignore this. Shoulders back, ears over your shoulders. Chin level.

Walk in with attitude, (Ya know like you belong, cuz you do).

7. Keep Hair Deliberate

Silver, cropped, colored, short, long. It doesn't matter.

Take time to find your right stylist and cut.

A great haircut, kept in check, is a must. Make it intentional.

8. The Importance of the Bag and Shoes

I am not talking designer, expensive, overly logoed. One great bag beats five average ones and can make or break your look. Shoes too. People always notice shoes. Wear your best. You can put together a great outfit and get dragged right down with your bag and shoes. This is your time to shine. Polish them up. Get new heels. You've got this. Remember power is curated.

9. Claim a Signature

Statement glasses.

A bold piece.

A great scent.

Let something be unmistakable to you.

10. Dress Like You Expect to be Seen. (ALWAYS)

Not for approval.

Not for attention.

Because you are alive.

Age does not diminish presence. It refines it.

How about this?

Dress for the role you want to play.

Suz xo